Wednesday, October 7, 2015
Today, we (he--I'm not old yet) survived another "old people" surgery. Yes, today the hubby had a cataract removed from his right eye.......not a biggie, but a first for us (him) so we were just a tad tense. I had to stay in the lobby until they had him all prepped which seemed to take for-EVER. Finally they brought me back and it was all I could do not to laugh. Pulling back that curtain and seeing all his loveliness; one eye dilated the other not, fitted with a lovely paper gown with matching bonnet and booties, forehead tattooed with his doctor's initials--just in case they forget which eye, IVs going every which way, it was hard not to just double over giggling. But no, I held it all inside...this is serious knife stuff.
We just made small talk as he waited to go back for surgery. It finally came to us that the last time we were at this center, some 25 miles from home, was when he first had his sinus surgery.
That discussion led to this.
He: I haven't had a sinus problem since I started boiling the water (well water) for my irrigator."
Me: Maybe we shouldn't be drinking it.
He says quite seriously: Not the same at all. I don't put tomato juice up my nose, but I drink it.
That's when I lost it. I laughed out loud. Imagine this old man bundled up in his paper gown and his cute little bonnet, one eye dilated, the other not, tattooed forehead saying "I don't put tomato juice up my nose, but I drink it."
We both were giggling like teenagers. What a tension reliever.........we both needed it. "I don't put tomato juice up nose." Nope, Johnny, I don't put tomato juice up my nose, either.
That man has a great sense of humor.
I love you.
Tuesday, September 29, 2015
Sunset Swiftly Becoming Twilight
Many of my posts have been about living on the farm back in the 50s and 60s; trying to relay to my few readers the joy and contentment of my childhood. I saw this photograph on Facebook recently and for some reason this picture sums up all that is in my heart. Maybe if you use your imagination, you can feel my contentment.
Imagine a gentler time, no cars honking, no sirens blaring; just the peaceful end to a perfect fall day.
Imagine the sun setting just like that photo.
Imagine the changing fall colors of the oak trees.
Imagine the grassy aroma of the dry dusty grass at summer’s end.
Now, imagine five little children driving the cattle back to the barn.
Imagine the cows meandering through the meadow, tails swishing over their backs, mooing softly.
Imagine the voices of these children, perhaps singing, their breath steaming in the cool evening air; their faces red from the cold.
Imagine the sunset slowing descending in the West.
Imagine the eerie twilight creeping in.
Imagine children running to the back door—slightly, only slightly, fearful of the coming darkness.
Their chores are done. Soon they will be inside doing homework and maybe watching a little television.
Now imagine these five children in their homemade flannel pajamas and nightgowns safely tucked in their beds—safe and sound!
Imagine this bucolic scene. Imagine this as your childhood. It was mine!
Many thanks to Brett Day for the use of his lovely photo. It was taken on Kathleen Hecker’s farm recently. While this photo is not of my family’s farm, the picture was uncannily similar. Thank you, Brett, for permission to use your photo and thanks for the memories.
Monday, September 28, 2015
My grandchildren and me—Mother’s Day 2015
This afternoon, Logan, next to me on my right (the little guy), called me. He didn’t have to say three words before I knew he had some exciting news. He told me he lost the tooth that he’d been working on for a while. In fact only yesterday he had me wiggle the tooth, but it just wasn’t quite ready to come out. He knew that I would be as excited as he was because we’d worked on it together. If I understood him in his excitement, his friend on the bus accidently hit the tooth and out it came, but somehow the other little boy also got hurt and was bleeding, too. He told me that the other little boy said he was ok even though he was bleeding. He said, “It would make me sad if he was hurt.”
And that isn’t all that made his day exciting. He’d made 90 on his AR test (reading). WAHOO! I’d promised him a special reward at the end of the year if he read 5 books over his yearly AR goal and now he is one book closer to that reward.
Then, be still my heart, he said this: "Do you know what's the best part of my day is? It is when you answered the phone. I didn't think you'd answer." I can’t even begin to tell you how much this touched me.
Logan needed to share his excitement with me. He wanted a personal conversation with his grandmother at the exact moment of his joy. He needed me to answer. He needed to hear my voice and my excitement to mimic his own.
I have seen so many people receive a phone call and deliberately not answer the call. How many people just needed to hear your voice, needed you to be as excited as they were? That call is gone, but next time you start to ignore a call, think about the person on the other end. Think of their needs…..are they needing a hug, are they needing to hear your voice. “Do you know what the best part of my day is?”
I love you.
Saturday, September 26, 2015
After reading it twice I realize that I, me, am the person that controls my joy....not the TV, and certainly not the rants that I see on Facebook. I am responsible for ME. I need to find the "joy" of washing dishes again. Perhaps it is all the little "joys" that make the deeper happiness in all of us. I may have to plug in the iron. The simple joys.
I love you.
I'm going to try to blog/write again, my friends. It has been difficult finding time or should I say, difficult to find a time when I wasn't on Facebook. I am trying my best to put Facebook away for a while because Facebook rants, and sometimes even raves, can put me in a "negative" mood. I'm going to try.
I can't post this on September 26 without sweet memories of two people who had the same September 26 birthday; Mrs. Tucker and my dad. Love them forever.
Friday, September 25, 2015
Town after town had a uniqueness that I wanted to capture and blog about, but there was one town, Paoli, that gave me pause for thought, and, of course, memories. Paoli had only one small church that I noticed with a sign out front that we are having a fish fry tonight. As small as the town was, I was kind of envious of their lifestyle. They're having this little fish fry right about now and everyone in town will be invited. I was envious that each person there tonight will know everyone else. I was envious that the parents will feel comfortable enough to let their children run and play out doors. There will be small talk, laughter, and then there's the fish.
I was envious because they are living my memories. My memories of having church socials, and how safe I felt running around the church in the evening in my little dress that tied in the back. How exhausted and tired we all were on the short ride home with the windows down, dust flying--mom and dad and five little kids crammed into the car without regard to seatbelts.
Idealistic????--maybe. You are thinking that I look back with rose colored glasses. I probably do, but isn't it wonderful that I actually do think of my childhood as pleasant rather one of disdain. So, Paoli church, I hope you had a wonderful evening with your friends and your children. I hope you rode home with the windows down, but with your children buckled up.
I love you. I love rural roads.
There were so many other wonderful moments on our trip today that brought a lump in my throat. The Model T we saw and wondered about the person who restored it and if they were having as much fun as we were in our convertible.
One town was completely inundated with posters about tonight's football game and I wondered if their high school band was going to play the fight song as they marched down the halls to draw the kids out of class for a pep rally--just like dear old Prague High School did back in the day--"intestinal fortitude" as coach always alluded to in EVERY rally.
Almost every town we went through on our way to Sulphur, OK, had a BBQ restaurant with a smoker billowing in preparation for their Friday customers.
The dry grasslands getting crunchy from lack of rain; the cattle gathered under the trees for shade; the trees not quite ready to turn are beginning to take on that look of fall. All in all, a very peaceful, calming day............reminding me so much of my childhood and thoughts of the holidays ahead. You see, even I can't always look back. We have to look forward and realize that happiness if what WE make it. Let's make some happiness.
Saturday, September 19, 2015
That's all I have today.
I love you.
Friday, September 18, 2015
There he is. My oldest grandson.
Pitching for the very first time. He started
playing baseball only this fall, 7 games ago.
His grandmother couldn’t be prouder.
That’s it on the home front.
I love you.
By the way, these little boys are so cute in their uniforms.
Thursday, September 17, 2015
We went to the Oklahoma State Fair today and right there in front of me was the old Farmall H. Whoa!! immediately sucked back to the 50s. I learned to drive on a tractor just like this. That’s the beauty of being a farm kid, you learn to drive ten years before the city kids. I remember driving a tractor like this at 8 years old, maybe earlier; my brother at 6. We’d do our best to keep those front two wheels between the row.
I have to tell you, it really seemed a lot bigger back in the day. No matter, it’s still huge for a 6 year old child. Was it dangerous? Yeah, probably it was. You can take a look at the last photo and realize how open you were to moving parts, let alone those wheels.
While I would be a little fearful of allowing my grandsons to drive one of these things at such a young age, I certainly am certainly glad I grew up on a farm………..and was allowed to drive that a Farmall.
I love you!!
Sunday, September 13, 2015
Dad was smarter than I ever gave him credit back in 1966; a girl had two choices back then. 1) Go to college or some sort of trade school or 2) Get a job! Dad could see the writing on the wall and he knew he wanted more for his little girl than living on the farm as a spinster. He wanted me to meet people and, let's face it, he probably wanted me to find a suitable husband. Chances are I would meet more suitable husband material in the workforce than driving a tractor or bringing in the cows. And job choices, let alone careers, were limited, too. Oh, I had the perfect comeback to those Sunday night debates. "Daddy, (whining) I will just work at Anthony's or be a waitress at Hamburger King." Seriously folks, that is as far as my ambitions went especially on those dreaded Sunday nights. I wasn't about to let my dad know he was wearing me down. I just quietly passed those typing tests and my steno tests.
In the end, as much as those Sunday night debates (arguments) irritated me, they actually helped change my life. In fact typing, with dad's encouragement, probably was instrumental in making me the woman I am today. It pushed me into a huge air force base, gave me a chance to make friends with people who were unknown to me...different even. I broadened my horizons. It allowed this little, extremely shy, farm girl to blossom and overcome some very deep seated self-esteem issues.............and only after 4 or 5 years, I was able to talk to people without turning red.
So nearly 50 years later, I am sorry I gave my dad so much grief over whether I passed a typing test. Dad you were right.
I love you.
I had no idea what I was going to type about tonight, but this is where I ended up. I hope to blog more often as it is therapeutic for me, but there are days when nothing seems important enough to write about..........but then again, my whole blog is nothing important. So I guess I have my groove back. This is all tongue in cheek. It's just fun to see what pops into my head.
Sunday, August 30, 2015
Seattle..........one of my all-time favorite places in the world. The whole state is wonderful to me. I've never saw so many coffee shops in my life...........and apples............
Lake Louise, Canada...........(my only out of country DO OVER) I didn't get to spend enough time there. There are (were) some great cabins nearby and I'd love to stay in one of them one more time. Wonder if they're still there.
Jackson, WY............the whole Jackson Hole area. Perfection!
Maine...........the whole state. Loved the entire New England area. And the seafood...superb!
Yosemite National Park/Sequoyah National Park...........Wow! Spectacular. You see these parks and you know why long years ago these acres were designated a national park.
Disney World..........surprises you? This is probably the only entertainment park I would like to go again. This time, I would like to stay in a hotel on the premises.
There are lots of places I didn't mention; i.e. Niagara Falls, Washington, DC. Although I loved many, many more places than those above, these six places seem attainable. Give me three days to do laundry and get the lawn mowed, and I am there..........anywhere. I think I will dream about a DO OVER.
I love you.
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